Your writing always paints such vivid images in my head. You have such a creative gift. It is true that pain often brings new gifts and healing. Thank you for always writing from your heart and the honesty you bring to each story.
Thank you, dear friend, for these kind words. They mean the world to me. And gee, you are up early, lol! I'm on the east coast, otherwise I'd be snoozing right about now.
I am always up around 4:30 am. I used to have to get up at this time when I was working. I can’t seem to break the habit plus I love the quiet morning. Enjoy your time with Amy.
"I’ve always maintained that life balances over time. By that, I mean we all have our hardships, tragedies, and secrets. But I've come to realize that these experiences, as painful as they may be, are life's greatest teachers. If we remain positive and open, at some point, we will reap the reward, learn the lesson, and understand that without the contrast, we might never appreciate the immense blessings we will undoubtedly also receive along the way."
Thanks for this reminder and for the encouraging words, Sue.
Sue, thanks for sharing your story. I can relate as I did not invite my mom to our wedding 44 years ago. As a nurse, she became addicted to prescription drugs. In those days we did not know a lot about mental illness, let alone talk about it. I was at peace then about my decision not to invite her and I still am. Of course I wish things could’ve been different, but they weren’t, so I did what was best for me. I’ve spent a lot of time in therapy working thru my “mom issues”, and now I can say I’m grateful because that work made me the person I am today and I love that person!🥰
So happy to hear you were able to work through your mom issues as well. When we can pull up something lovely from all the turmoil it makes it worth while for sure. Thanks for sharing your story, Marti. Always a pleasure to hear from you!
Look how young you were! We're often so tender when we get wounded. Glad you've been able to grow into all the skins that brought you the life you have today.
Gorgeous picture of you Sue and a heartfelt post. In my meditation today, ancestral healing came up. It must be in the zeitgeist , as we heal ourselves along with past and future generations. Enjoy all your celebrations and joys 💗
I can identify with your post. I was not sober at my daughter’s high school graduation and as a result forgot to take some pictures of her. I don’t even remember if she was wearing the cap and gown!
A few months later I went into a rehab and never looked back. Then a few years later she asked if I’d walk her down the aisle at her wedding. Alcoholism affects not just the drunk, but it’s like a baby’s mobile hanging over a crib, when one part is touched, the whole mobile is affected. I have lost quite a few family members to this disease. Fortunately, in a couple months I’ll be celebrating 30 years of sobriety and am still here to now be a power of example for my boys through their recovery.
Gail, that is such a huge accomplishment that you were able to overcome and move beyond. You as well as your children are blessed every day because of your determination and strength.
Thank you Sue, I was around my boy’s ages when I got sober—42, so I figure if they get off the addictions they too can have a good 20 to 30 more years.
Congratulations are due all around. First to Amy and Michael for finding their “other”.
Second congratulations to you for gaining a wonderful son-in-law
The grandest applause Sue, to you personally; the healing journey you traversed, letting go of what you experienced, and the choice you made to bring only love into the present moment.
A vision of joy and love you are. I am certain your angels are celebrating and your ancestors are relieved of burdens as you choose love with every breath you take.
I am blessed to know you and be a witness through your writing.
Thank you, Patricia, for your continued support here on Substack. It was such fun remembering that special day and I'm excited to share our current blessings next week and the weeks afterward. I appreciate you and your spirit!
Your writing always paints such vivid images in my head. You have such a creative gift. It is true that pain often brings new gifts and healing. Thank you for always writing from your heart and the honesty you bring to each story.
Thank you, dear friend, for these kind words. They mean the world to me. And gee, you are up early, lol! I'm on the east coast, otherwise I'd be snoozing right about now.
I am always up around 4:30 am. I used to have to get up at this time when I was working. I can’t seem to break the habit plus I love the quiet morning. Enjoy your time with Amy.
Yes, early morning is a beautiful time. I am definitely enjoying my time with Amy! Beautiful here this time of year. Enjoy your day.
"I’ve always maintained that life balances over time. By that, I mean we all have our hardships, tragedies, and secrets. But I've come to realize that these experiences, as painful as they may be, are life's greatest teachers. If we remain positive and open, at some point, we will reap the reward, learn the lesson, and understand that without the contrast, we might never appreciate the immense blessings we will undoubtedly also receive along the way."
Thanks for this reminder and for the encouraging words, Sue.
You are so welcome, my friend.
Thanks for sharing your life with your mother. I have similar wounds, and the new generation is a balm to those old memories.
Yes, they most definitely are a balm. Thanks, Ilona, for reading and sharing.
Thank you for sharing this story, and congratulations.
Thank you, David, for reading and commenting!
Your writing is a welcome morning companion, Sue. The piece you wrote about your children's wedding was a joy to read.
What a lovely thing to say, Marianne. Thank you so much.
Sue, thanks for sharing your story. I can relate as I did not invite my mom to our wedding 44 years ago. As a nurse, she became addicted to prescription drugs. In those days we did not know a lot about mental illness, let alone talk about it. I was at peace then about my decision not to invite her and I still am. Of course I wish things could’ve been different, but they weren’t, so I did what was best for me. I’ve spent a lot of time in therapy working thru my “mom issues”, and now I can say I’m grateful because that work made me the person I am today and I love that person!🥰
So happy to hear you were able to work through your mom issues as well. When we can pull up something lovely from all the turmoil it makes it worth while for sure. Thanks for sharing your story, Marti. Always a pleasure to hear from you!
May our parents’ angst
turn into awareness in us.
And in our children.
Look how young you were! We're often so tender when we get wounded. Glad you've been able to grow into all the skins that brought you the life you have today.
Gorgeous picture of you Sue and a heartfelt post. In my meditation today, ancestral healing came up. It must be in the zeitgeist , as we heal ourselves along with past and future generations. Enjoy all your celebrations and joys 💗
Thank you so much, Susan. 💕
I can identify with your post. I was not sober at my daughter’s high school graduation and as a result forgot to take some pictures of her. I don’t even remember if she was wearing the cap and gown!
A few months later I went into a rehab and never looked back. Then a few years later she asked if I’d walk her down the aisle at her wedding. Alcoholism affects not just the drunk, but it’s like a baby’s mobile hanging over a crib, when one part is touched, the whole mobile is affected. I have lost quite a few family members to this disease. Fortunately, in a couple months I’ll be celebrating 30 years of sobriety and am still here to now be a power of example for my boys through their recovery.
Gail, that is such a huge accomplishment that you were able to overcome and move beyond. You as well as your children are blessed every day because of your determination and strength.
Thank you Sue, I was around my boy’s ages when I got sober—42, so I figure if they get off the addictions they too can have a good 20 to 30 more years.
I'll be praying for them, my friend.
Thank you!
😊
🙏🏻
Congratulations are due all around. First to Amy and Michael for finding their “other”.
Second congratulations to you for gaining a wonderful son-in-law
The grandest applause Sue, to you personally; the healing journey you traversed, letting go of what you experienced, and the choice you made to bring only love into the present moment.
A vision of joy and love you are. I am certain your angels are celebrating and your ancestors are relieved of burdens as you choose love with every breath you take.
I am blessed to know you and be a witness through your writing.
PS Thank you for the shout out. 🙏💕
Thank you, Patricia, for your continued support here on Substack. It was such fun remembering that special day and I'm excited to share our current blessings next week and the weeks afterward. I appreciate you and your spirit!
Thank you, Rita. I am grateful as well!