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Aug 26, 2022Liked by Sue Ferrera

This is a message written by my father Scott. Thank you Sue, we love you oh so much.

Thank you for the wonderful comments. Diana (Andy’s Mom) and I are so grateful for Andy’s remarkable recovery. I really appreciate Jordan’s contribution to Andy’s recouperation. During the hospital time and since, Jordan has been so kind and comforting to all of us. He is truly a wonderful friend to our entire family.

As my retired doctor best friend said, “it is no less than a miracle Andy survived and recovered from his accident.” Andy has devoted the past five years to recovering from his traumatic brain injury. Di and I are so amazed and proud of him. He has focused on returning to pre-accident Andy (i.e. funny, caring, and inspired). Jordan has truly contributed to Andy’s return to awesomeness.

Reading your message brought back some tears. It is joyous to be on this side of that crummy time. As one parent to another skateboarder parent…listen up: Do not let your child skateboard without a helmet! No helmet; no skateboard.

Much love, Scott (Andy’s proud Dad)

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What a story. Blessings on Andy and on your son! I love this site. I hope you get a thousand readers.

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This is a beautiful piece. This week I was taking care of a neighbor's dog. She would sit beside me and beg for more massage. The minute my hand stopped she would look back at me in fear. I could see how my hands took her somewhere she wasn't often. She even stopped barking in my midst... I think she liked what my hands could do that much. I found this spot on her head that absolutely took her to another place. It reminded me of when I gave scalp and head massages to stressed executives and creative types in the entertainment field. It is amazing to me how we can be overwhelmed and just five minutes of some touch to our head, and a gentle nudging on the occipital ridge delivers a second wind to any and every body.

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I am so grateful you've been able to develop such a meaningful relationship with your 'boy' and your 'girl'. What I'd give for even a few moments like you shared with Jordan. You know my situation, I have to take deep breathes sometimes, for me. This is an excellent post, Sue, reminding all of us, on this journey called life, many lessons about healing are presented to us, often in unexpected moments, how and what we do with them reveals new doors, windows and the 'next' lessons. And so growth manifest....

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Aug 20, 2022Liked by Sue Ferrera

Beautiful story of passion and healing. So glad you were able to spend time with Jordan.

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Thank you Andy for sharing your father's message. And thank you Scott for sharing your heartfelt comments about your experience. Your comment about my post bringing tears doesn't surprise me. I'm crying as I respond to you. Life is so doggone hard at times, and then it circles back around to surprise us with its amazing grace. Our boys connected for good reason, they share a spirit, a kindness, and humor-- a winning hand. I hope to meet you one day. In the meantime, enjoy your family.

Returning your love,

Sue

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